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friendship-depression-antisocial-anxiety
Well, I have friends at school, though I'm not totally sure who's real & who's fake. I'm very shy and don't make friends easily. I've gone from group-to-group a lot this year and have lost touch with the people I knew had my back. I felt like a 6th wheel sometimes and was bored with them, but I knew they were real. I started hanging around another group, of whom I was only comfortable & really friends with one girl. But, now, the rest of that group is nice one day, then act like they don't know me the next. Finally, the group I sit with now isn't much better. Two of the girls in that group are from the first group I mentioned. One of those girls is switching schools next year...she's also the one I'm closest to. The girls in this group do things on the weekends that I have no knowledge of. They plan things at the table when I'm sitting there and they don't even look my way while they're doing this, so they don't invite me. Then, later in the day, they have the nerve to ask me what I'm doing this weekend. When I saw 'nothing,' they just say 'oh.' So, as you can imagine, I have no contact with the opposite sex. I have a weight problem, but I'm losing weight (50 lbs and counting), so confidence is an iddue. And, lastly, associating/connecting with people is the hardest thing for me to do. I have a hard time laughing at things that I normally find funny because I'm a wreck on the inside. I've dissected this situation & my own mental state along with it multiple times. I just don't know what to do. Sorry for being a black cloud. Any advice...please?
I posted this publicly, but you're the only legit-looking colomnist on the most recently updated list. So I'm assuming you know your stuff.
Thanks.
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Not to be crude, you sound like the oppisite of me some what...
I too have a weight issue, which is you know normal sometimes, it's good you're trying to lose weight keep at it!
Now.. the whole.. lost and kind of feeling like an outcast in groups.. is .. some what normal.
I'd have to know some more about you I think to help, I mean you seem like someone who shouldn't settle for a group of people who don't invite you, and if you do.. Well then I think it's time to put your foot down and become more direct. Don't let them push you around, there not better then you or anything. I mean ask if you can come along next time they make plans and such!! : ) I know it's hard, because becoming more direct and close could make you open up.. It sounds like that may scare you. Also oppisite sex?! Pfft take your time there, high school boys can be a little weird anyways. Right? Lol
I think maybe you could use someone to talk to some more on this subject and stuff so if you want be my guest, I have Msn or myspace.. : )
msn - psycologist2be@hotmail.com
myspace - www.myspace.com/666_wolfbitch_howlzzz
My name is Ashlee.. : ) I'd love to do anything I can.
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