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A ****friend
I USED to have a girl i call best friend. Needless to say, i didn't realize that no such thing exists at the time, and worse i didn't realize how much I put into the relationship to keep it going. She lives in a book (literally she thinks this world is a fairytale) i am prone to be a stepover but i am not week i just don't know how to be in the middle... i am either so wicked or soooo nice. anyway i got in trouble needed her help (which wasn't worth the roller coaster ride she made me take). she didn't really help me out - i.e i didn't need her help i just told her in case something happens this this and that and it had NOTHING TO DO WITH HER at all!!!!! She then made it seem like i owed her the world and that i gave her so much to do and so much trouble and what not (which is so not true!!!) anyway it's my fault for allowing this to get this far... I am so mad at her and i don't want reconciliation. i dont want to be vengeful but i can't help it!!!
she is so self-absorbed but doesn't see it!!!
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It sounds more like ranting here but if she is gonna act like this then you should drop her. She doesn't deserve a friend like you. Your gonna make other friends and better ones. You will lose friends and gain new ones. It happens all the time. You don't want to be stuck with her if she doesn't treat you like a real friend. Don't go and do something to hurt her but just stop hanging around her or you could sit down and have a talk with her about this. Don't keep stuff bottle inside. But don't go and blow up on her and complain and complain. Just tell her how you feel in a calm way. Good luck!
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I don't see what advice you're asking for here, but if she's acting like that, chances are you're better off without her, at least until she gets over herself.
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