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old flame harrases me on internet


Question Posted Sunday March 22 2009, 1:15 pm

Hello my name is jess. I added a speedate app on my facebook. An old flame of mine found me and sent me a nasty message. I told him off but ever since this happened (which was a month ago) I can't stop thinking about him. I want to confront him and tell him why he would contact me after all this time and when he said he would never contact me or talk to me again. He also pops into my life periodically just to mess with me. What should I do?

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christina answered Monday March 23 2009, 2:19 am:
It's already to the point of harassment whether it be in person or online, it's still annoying. You need to cut off all contact with him. Change the Account Settings for Privacy on your Facebook. If he isn't a friend, make it so that he cannot contact you in any way, shape or form. Change your e-mail, change your number (if he has it), & delete the application you added. If it gets to the part of where he bothers you in person, get a restraining order.

Harassment is disgusting, and so are the pathetic people that commit it.

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BahaiMa22 answered Sunday March 22 2009, 2:12 pm:
I agree with Razie

Ignore him and cut all contact if you have to uninstall the applicant. If you run into him in person tell him to stop harrassing you and then don't talk to him again.

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Razhie answered Sunday March 22 2009, 1:27 pm:
Ignore him, and get over it.

ANY action you take, ANY confrontation you make, will only contribute to his nasty behavoir.

For whatever reason, he gets his rocks off on being nasty to you. If you let him know it affects you, he'll just keep on doing it.

Learn to let it go.

The only thing you should not let go of, is anything that is worth calling the police over. Any behavoir less serious then that, ignore it.

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