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Whys it not easy for some to take being alone?


Question Posted Friday March 13 2009, 12:24 pm

i do so hope that i dont sound like im being mean or anything, if i do i am deeply sorry
and so i start
Im 17 a guy and iv been alone for 5 years of my life, iv got like 3 people i can really really relate to and call my best freinds. i do have other class mates i class as friend but not so much that i would go out of my way to se out side of college.
but yeah my question is, I see people on here posting questions like im so lonely, no boyfriend / girlfriend etc why is it that i dont have these thoughts to the point of depression? i mean yeah i get lonley every now and then. but then i seem to get over it quite easily. am i mentally affraid of somthing? though its been a quiet and near boring 5 years. iv never been really lonley or thought about it so much that i want to cry or get emotionally stressed over. i have many hobbies (Making music, a couple of Extreme sports, Art) is it that im too busy with these hobbies and college that i dont get frustrated? iv liked probably 2 girls in the past 5 years my most recent one was a flop when i found out she allready had a BF (lucky me >.<) that was a long drawn out process of forgetting my feelings which took a while but im back to being bouncy me lol and the other was my best friend who helped me through getting over her which was a confusing but a process that worked.
thanks for answers in advance :D im looking forward to your interpretations


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Trauma answered Friday March 13 2009, 8:23 pm:
It's not weird to not get lonely. It's mainly just a personality thing. Some people are extremely social & can't stand being alone, while others could care less if they're single. Not only that, but some people tend to put hobbies & fun before a relationship, while a relationship is the most important thing for other people.

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