I really honestly am stuck on what to do..... Im so short money and I still need to pay my phone bill.. I have to get all my stuff to deadwood before the end of march when my lease ends in my apartment... my car just broke down and i still owe about 2800 dollars on that... thank god for my mom letting me drive her car.... I jut feel like everything is falling on me at once and its just too much. I know im not the only person out there with these problems but I need some advice to let me know what i can do so i dont end up in the nut house!!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category? Maybe give some free advice about: Mental health? TLBSANDIEGO answered Monday April 20 2009, 1:17 am: Ok first thing is you need to put it out there that everthing will work out,this sound crazy but trust me it works.Life is a road of obstacle's,everthing that we go through,bills not having enough money,break ups these are life's test,and the way you pass the test of life and dealing with everday problems,is tell your self that you will not let not having enough money or over due bills keep you for keeping control.Everyday when you wake up say to your self it will all work out and i am an control if you keep putting it out there,you feel feel better and you will be amazed how things will start working in your favor. [ TLBSANDIEGO's advice column | Ask TLBSANDIEGO A Question ]
laynemayhem answered Thursday March 12 2009, 11:57 am: give up a few luxuries for a while. try to just buy soup and ramen noodles from the store, and a few cokes from a coke machine. give up your phone until you're sure you can pay it off again. ask your boss if you can work a few extra hours for some extra money. and maybe you could ask one of your friends to live with you as a roommate, and they can pay half the rent.
and take a bus or ride your bike when you can. :)
these seem really stupid and cheap right now, but with the way this economy is going, its for the best. and remember, this is just temporary.
Dearbookworm answered Thursday March 12 2009, 11:01 am: Like you said, everyone has these problems. I would suggest doing the one thing that is the most important. For instance since your using your mothers car you can go back to packing or trying to get money,have you ever tried cash advanced when you need money right now in a emergency and it sounds like your in one of those. i believe that is what is called.
That is what i would do find what is the most important and do that first. if you can't find anything that is most important do everything one at a time so you don't overwhelm yourself.
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