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lesbian?
I was sleeping over a friends house over the weekend for her birthday. There were a five of us altogether. I've known these girls for a long time, some of them for liek 10 years already. Anyway, after we all changed for bed, we were sitting around and making girl talk and gossipping about stuff in school. during a lull in the conversation, one hte girls reached into her bag and pulled out a porn video. We all laughed. I didn't think things would go farhter, but before I knew it the video was in the dvd player and the fve of us were watching it. That's not all the happened. The movie was hot and we got super turned on. three of the girls there were openly playing with themselves, and one went so far as to take her panties off to do it. Another one moved them aside. I know everyone masturbates I do too. But what does it mean that they did it so openly and didn't care that we all saw them doing it? I had a hard time not watching them and eventually stopped watching the movie and concentrated on what was going on around me and I think I got more turned on by my friends than by the movie. After the movie the three of them kept at it till they "finished" and then we went to sleep. No one said anything the next morning. Does this mean I'm a lesbian? Does it mean anything that I really want to do this again, except I also want to be watched and not just watch?
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maybe your not and just curious because you sound kind of young and some girls look at other girls but still like boys. lls, every time i watch porn i go mabstervate with a electric toothbrush
no bigger andif you are you peers will accept you for who you are if ther really your friends
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you have to realize, when it comes to porn, 97 percent of it includes girls. and 90 percent of it includes ONLY girls and lesbians. a lot of women watch porn, and they are straight. what mostly turns people on while their watching it, isnt the girls, but what the girls are doing. for guys, it might be the girls. but the girls in the video moan and groan and do all sorts of dirty stuff that gets almost everybody off.
and you're not a lesbian unless you're attracted to girls, and ONLY girls. if guys have no affect on you whatsoever, and girls do, you might be a lesbian. but if you're attracted to your friends, even when you're not horny, and also attracted to guys, you might be bisexual. but i seriously doubt you are les or bi. i think you were just horny, and when people hit a certain point on the horny scale, they start feeling that way even towards people that they wouldnt normally be attracted to, especially for girls.
so breathe easy. :) its no big deal.
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Does this mean you're a lesbian? Not necessarily. Girls tend to have an easier time relating to girls and the way they feel. It's a comfort sort of thing, and obviously all of you felt comfortable with each other at that point.
That said, it may have just been the right place at the right time, and may never happen again.
There's something so be said about the sexual thrill that comes with something new and "dirty". Everyone has different things that turn them on. Sometimes it manifests itself in ways that surprise... and in settings that you may not have thought of before.
That being said, don't rule out the possibility that you could be, in fact, a lesbian. You could also be bisexual, or just open to experimentation. It's not unheard of.
The answer is to just look into your heart, and listen to what you're telling yourself. Try new things, and hopefully, you'll come to a conclusion. Keep in mind that some people take years to really find what makes them who they are. Sometimes, sooner. Don't jump to conclusions.
Above all, just do what you think is right. I can't tell you whether or not it is wrong to be a lesbian, nor do I know what your stands are. Personally, I believe that love is a gift, no matter how you wrap it. If this makes you happy, then continue!
Hope this helped!
(Also, PS... This is quite the story you have here. Like, Penthouse Forum-esque. You may consider sending that one in. I wish my life was exciting. )
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