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What does it mean if you're horny a lot but you don't really enjoy sex? For me sex isn't bad, it's just boring, not that my partner is bad at it, I just get bored, but I'm always horny and I like it better when he fingers me then when we have intercourse. So what does it mean if you are always horny and arn't a big fan of sex? (link)
it either means you arent doing it rite or not being satisfied! try difeerent partner, one with a bigger dick, lls! :)


Ok. I thought this was a funny question. I saw it and i thought I might as well find the answer out for curiousity's sake... in like 10 years it could come useful lol
What do guys like a girl to do when they are being eaten out or having sex?
Like do they like it when a girl makes noises, or eye contact, or plays with their hair or what? Also, im wondering what MOST girls like guys to do (but im straight). Just curious. I rate high for GOOD answers
Madison
Age 18
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definently making noises they think its sexy as do i. but oa mistake is too look in his eyes they hate that because it shows true imtamicy and all that other crap! oh and as he stroke you should do the same


I was sleeping over a friends house over the weekend for her birthday. There were a five of us altogether. I've known these girls for a long time, some of them for liek 10 years already. Anyway, after we all changed for bed, we were sitting around and making girl talk and gossipping about stuff in school. during a lull in the conversation, one hte girls reached into her bag and pulled out a porn video. We all laughed. I didn't think things would go farhter, but before I knew it the video was in the dvd player and the fve of us were watching it. That's not all the happened. The movie was hot and we got super turned on. three of the girls there were openly playing with themselves, and one went so far as to take her panties off to do it. Another one moved them aside. I know everyone masturbates I do too. But what does it mean that they did it so openly and didn't care that we all saw them doing it? I had a hard time not watching them and eventually stopped watching the movie and concentrated on what was going on around me and I think I got more turned on by my friends than by the movie. After the movie the three of them kept at it till they "finished" and then we went to sleep. No one said anything the next morning. Does this mean I'm a lesbian? Does it mean anything that I really want to do this again, except I also want to be watched and not just watch? (link)
maybe your not and just curious because you sound kind of young and some girls look at other girls but still like boys. lls, every time i watch porn i go mabstervate with a electric toothbrush
no bigger andif you are you peers will accept you for who you are if ther really your friends


do you get pregnant if your condom breaks but you didnt cum alot. (link)
yea, pleasure has nothing to do with getting preganent! Acually, dont mean to scare you but most of the time when the sex is bad is when you get pregnant! :0


Okay, so basically my boyfriend promised me he'd see me today, and sleep over tonight.

However just before he was about to leave, he told me he couldn't come because he wanted to do a few chores. He didn't have to, but he wanted to get them done.

It's kinda stupid, but I'm a bit disappointed and angry at him. I didn't show that to him, I told him it was fine and I understood, because it'd be silly to actually argue with him over it.

But I feel guilty for feeling this way, it's not his fault.

I know it's pathetic, but I seriously wouldn't have cared if he said "I can't see you today, I have stuff to do"

It was that he was like "Yeah sure! Promise I'll see you today, and for once I'll be able to sleep over" but then just before he leaves he texts me saying "Sorry can't come over, If I don't do this stuff I won't be able to do it until tomorrow"

:( (link)
Yea maybe you be just a little dramatic ut as long as hes not cheating or lieing you should appriciate him and cherish him cause there arent that many faithful good men out there! Let him know Why you feel this way and tell him not to make plans with you any more unless he knows hes gonna stick to them if you really feels this strongly!


19/f

I've been dating my boyfriend for about three months, and even though we are not the same religion, it's not an issue because we're both open-minded and we don't try to push our ideas on each other. But his mother is very religiously Catholic, and she told my bf that she thinks I'm corrupting him because I'm Buddhist. In truth, my bf has been Agnostic for almost 2 years, and I have nothing to do with his religious point of view.

My bf also told his mom that we're sexually active, assuring her that we always have protected sex and that we're in love. His mom flipped, said I was tearing her family apart, and now he and I can't hang out at his house- we have to go out or chill at MY house.

He and I are both committed to this relationship, and we're planning on staying together for as long as possible. Is there anything I can do to get his mother's blessing? (link)
Maybe you could become catholic to gain his mothers respect! But if she is still not cooperating just tell her oof and tell her how you really feel, because sometimes only way to get respect from someone esspecially your boyfriend's mother you have to stand up to her! Im not saying you have to be disrespectful but let her knoe where your coming from! Oh and you may wann lie a little and tell her you guys arent haveing sex anymore, lol! :)


i wanna get my tongue pierced. not anything major, like 3 piercings in a row, just one in the middle.

dont ask why i want it, i just do, and i have for 3 years now. anyway.

my dad is so close to caving, but he needs a little convincing. hes worried about my enamel because he read somewhere that the ball on the piercing bangs against teeth all the time and it chips the enamel, and makes it a lot easier to get cavities...and we dont have dental insurance anymore.

so is there any way i could get a piercing and not destroy my teeth? like i was thinking i could get a regular piercing, but instead of a metal ball, just get a plastic one or something...or maybe marble, which i think is lighter than metal. not sure.

also, i smoke. and what would happen if i smoked while my tongue was still healing? is it ok to smoke while its healing, as long as i rinse real well? it is ok to smoke AFTER its done healing?

thank you to anybody who answers these :) (link)
First of all I think no matter what you shoud quit smoking all together. I had a really bad experience with it, my uncle smoked only for 4 years and he died of respitory cancer! He was on 19, but I dont know what would happen but it cant be good. Also I think you should just wait cause till you get alot older obviously if you arent even allowed to make this decision on your own but if you must tell your dad you lotts of people get tounge rings and nothing happen. So get a reliable source and got to the doctor.




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