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Insane Ex Boyfriend!!!


Question Posted Tuesday March 10 2009, 8:38 pm

okay so about 6 or 7 months ago i broke up with this guy jeremy for a multiple number of reasons. during that 6 and 7 month period he has been harassing the hell out of me!
he's sending me messages on facebook that say 'your a dirty whore go f*** yourself'
i got phone calls from restricted that had his voice on the other end saying creepy things.
i got strange screen names iming me saying they were one of my friends and when i asked my friends about it they had no idea what i was talking about.
so now me and this guy kevin are talking and were kind of going out... but not really. weve been on dates and were talking constantly and we've admitted to liking eachother... the typical.
so i get an inbox from my crazy ex boyfriend saying 'your a f****n bitch cuz you like kevin!' and hes making fun of him saying all these bad things.
he is in the same network as me on facebook so he can look at everything i do. and i talk to kevin a lot on facebook... and kevin is in the same network.
hes also been telling me that hes put a knife to his throat cause of me and crap like that. i know he's lying but he just won't admit it. half of the reason i broke up with him was cause of his lying.
i removed him as a friend on facebook, myspace, blocked him on aim, and blocked his youtube account!
he still finds ways to send me annoying and creepishly harrassing messages.
he wont leave me alone! i never respond to these messages cause i assume it will just be feeding the monster. but this has really got to stop before he gets carried away. hes coming to my school next year because of me and i feel as if hes stalking me!
i told my parents and theyre thinking of calling his parents and telling them everything thats happened. but i dont know if that will make things worse or not.
i honestly dont know what to do and hes scaring me.
help?


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XxcutieXx answered Wednesday March 11 2009, 5:55 pm:
Yes, telling your parents was good... :] but his stalking, ha, it's making me scared just reading this! Well, like you have been doing, ignore him, and if you need to, tell the police by going with your parents to talk to them... Ehh, i know it sounds... EHH. But, just try it because it's going too far. What my guess is, is that he's jealous of you because he misses you. You should... if you wanna... just try and IM him and ask why he's doing this to you (before you go and tell the police) then if he's doing it for no reason, tell the police because that's harassment obviously. And, if he says something that you wanna hear (I don't know what you wanna hear... lol) tell him you forgive him... Uh, I think that advice wasn't good enough... I don't think this made any sense... just try it... if it doesnt work, blame it on me.. :[ haha... If I could, I'll beat his ass 4 you! lol!

Always there 4 you 24/7, XxcutieXx

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TheMaster answered Wednesday March 11 2009, 4:01 pm:
Getting your parents involved may be the best thing to do if this guy is bothering you this badly, especially threatening stabbimg himself,etc...
I would discuss it with your parents and let them call the boys parents. Jeremy won't like it but he is the one that went to far. If he won't stop call the police. I'm not kidding.
GL TheMaster

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Trauma answered Wednesday March 11 2009, 2:07 pm:
Let your parents talk to his, & hopefully they'll be able to control him. If not, tell him if he doesn't stop you'll be forced to take legal action. I really don't know if they could do much for you right now, but if he does anything worse you should contact the police.

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amberTHEtherapist answered Wednesday March 11 2009, 2:06 pm:
Oh my goodness, tell your parents to talk to his parents..DEFINATLY!

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