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What should my friend do ?
alright so my friend Melinda is kind of prude i mean she has hooked up with one guy almost one year ago. we are sophomores now. but she does socialize and flirt. i recently found out that she has been talking to this freshman in college, James, that she has known for over a year. they honestly talk everyday about everything, the problem is, he has a girlfriend. Melinda and James dont discuss anything about being together- but i found it a little shady that yesterday James and his gf were in his room and the gf was on his bed and that Melinda and him were videochatting but he couldnt say anything to her so the girlfriend wouldnt hear. he had earphones in so he could listen to Melinda. anyways i feel like he likes her- he asks her to hang out and stuff and she is always always talking to him. what should she do? i know she likes James, but doesnt want to bc she doesnt want to be the other girl
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Well I don't think that you should be getting involved in your friend's business. It sounds like she's just wanting to start trouble where it doesn't need to be started. I think that you should just stay out of it by all means possible.
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Oh my goodness, thats kind of a bad thing to be doing. If i were her, id definatly stop talking to someone else when for one, she has a boyfriend & two, that kid has a girlfriend. If i was the girlfriend of that boy, i would definatly be making sure that hes not talking to someone else. And i would also kill him if he did that. But again, im not her. But all i have to say is that that kid needs to wake up & GROW UP and stick to his girlfriend that he already has. And to stop taling to your friend.
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James may still be trying to figure out what he wants in a girl. He may love his girlfriend, or maybe not. One or both of them may still have the urge to date others. Don't make James decide to quickly (unless of course you are having sex). Many young men like to "play the field". This is not abnormal at all. Some girls are this way but more often girls will tend to gravitate toward one boy. She should keep talking to him but be honest with him about her feelings (especially about the girlfriend). If it gets to the point where she can't continue, tell her to just smile and play hard to get....ha ha. Tell James, "You know where I'll be if you decide what you like"
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