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stalking my old teacher
Okay. This is extremely crazy && long.
but here it goes anyway...
I took a history class two years ago (my freshman year) and the teacher was always really cool with everyone. So, while i had the class i got a crush on the teacher. When the class was over at the end of the year, the crush was over too.
Well long story short, the crush is back as of three months. haha. (after two years) and I think im stalking him in a way....
Here are some things I have done:
1. I googled his phone number and address
2. I found his house. ((Its really close to the school. Me and bff drive over there every day at lunch, and i sometimes go in the mornings when i go to get coffee))
3. I called his home phone while he was at school on my friend's cell. AND because I knew he wasnt home, I knew it was going to go to voice mail, so I recorded his voice (message) onto my cell phone && its now saved on my phone.
4. I have a pic of his house on my phone
5 I know for a fact he's single and has never had kids.
6. He's 43. I'm 17.
7.I know the names of his brother, his bro's wife, his mother, his father and his sister.
8. I know that his mother lives with him and his father is dead.
9. I have pics that I found on the internet (facebook, websites, etc) of him saved on my computer.
10. He owns a small local business....<i live in a small town> Sooo me and my friend went to a holiday inn and stole a "do not disturb" sign and wrote a sexual note to him (without signing it) and taped it to the front of the business door.
11. I've photoshopped a picture of me and him together (as a joke)
12. I walk by his classroom everyday, even though i havent taken his class in two years.
13. I love him.
14. JUST RECENTLY, and the thing that made me realize this is begining to be a problem............me and my friend were skipping class, and we drove over to his house and stole his junk mail. I still have the mail in my car. It was only two little credit card applications, but it has his name on the front, which i love.
^^ i know this all sounds crazy or like a joke, but i swear it's my life. I hate it but I love it at the same time. He's so amazing. I cant get over this. I dont want to get over this, but I KNOW i need to stop before something bad happens because of me.
Advice please????
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At least you recognize it's a problem. You have seriously gone too far & I would suggest leaving him alone. I don't see why you should feel comfortable even having a normal relationship with this guy at this point, considering how you invaded his privacy. I realize this is a harsh response to your question, but it's true.
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You're right, you do need to stop because that's just.... wow.
Um, the first thing to do is to get your friend to help you stop. You say that you drive by his house? Well, try and break that routine by doing something else with your friends. Should the subject rise, ask them to help you stop doing this because that's what friends are for: supporting and helping each other.
Delete/shred/burn EVERYTHING which you have on him.
You need to get it into your head that there will be nothing between the two of you and the sooner you can get that engraved in, the sooner this will stop. 'Cause I get the feeling that a girl who has a crush on somebody 26 years older won't go down so well.
There's one thing which I want to tell you know which you may not have realized: if anybody finds what you have, I can suspect serious consequences will emerge and people's view of you will change dramatically. A while ago, I was accused of stalking somebody but thankfully, that was all a misunderstanding and I managed to sort that situation out. But in this case, it's very real and things can change. The school may take action along with teacher and that is one thing I think we all don't want to happen.
I can't help you with the information which you already know about his life.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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