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my myspace bf...


Question Posted Thursday March 5 2009, 10:20 am

(19yr old f)

there's this guy that i met on myspace, and i rreally like him. we've talked on the phone, text eachother, exchanged pictures. we know alot about eachother and we feel like we would be really good for eachother and we've been talking for a while, and have developed this special thing, and have this connection, and this understanding of eachother...

I think what i could have with him would be rrealy special and i dont want to ruin our plan to be together...but he lives kinda far and i havent actually met him in person yet. He is getting his own place relativelyyy soon and it will be alot closer to where i live and we will be able to see eachother and more conveniently.

...But,... I seem to be really attractive to alot of other guys, and there are guys who i talk to who want to meet up with me, and there's a guy who goes to my school, and he knows about my "relationship situation", and we started meeting as friends. he said he wasnt trying to take me from my bf, but we ended up spending alot of time with eachother that day and he ended up flirting with me, and we ended up kissing...alot of times.....

So should i feel guilty/... what should i do?... i cant be with the really special guy yet, we are both not exactly sure when we will meet...but we really do want to meet. Should i just resist every guy, and wait it out?... I hate that i am getting a little involved with other guys, but I really need to be held and kissed, and right now, the really special guy cant do that for me. =[ .... what do you think?..


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just_ask_me answered Thursday March 5 2009, 10:38 pm:
There is no problem in seeing/dating other guys. You're not in a serious relationship, so you should not feel guilty. It's called playing the field and seeing what else is out there. Never shut yourself off to other relationship oppurtunities. Continue what you're doing, and IF you meet this internet guy and still have the same feelings and start something, then you can stop seeing other guys! Who knows, you might meet him and realize he's not the one for you and you wasted all that time! Relax and have fun.

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sillyrob answered Thursday March 5 2009, 6:51 pm:
You have a Myspace boyfriend and you're over the age of 14? Jesus Christ! Just find a guy you like and fucking date him! Seriously, don't wait around for some lame ass loser who you met on the internet.

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