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new...friend?
ive known this guy since like 8th grade..and he was in 7th grade, and i didnt know him like REALLLLY SUPER WELL. But we talked and such, but i moved on to high school and didnt see him for a year. And now hes a freshman and im a sophomore. And we started talking again and we both want to hangout sometime =D we talk everyday..but sometimes i think the convos get boring..any ideas or good ways to talk to him? or bringing up topics to talk about and not get bored about it? We usually just text eachother..but i see him once a day after a class for a couple of minutes. He's sooo sweet! But I dont know how we should hangout? Like I know him, but not incredibly well. And he has freshman friends and idk if he'd be comfortable or it wouldnt be fun for him if me and him hung with my friends..i'd probably feel the same towards his. But I'm pretty sure this guy is gay, but he's the sweetest guy! I dont know what to do with him..we live like 15-20min away, but i live near a park. I want to get to know him better, but i dont want it to be awkward..especially since this will be the first time we'll hangout AS JUST FRIENDS, obviously. So what should I do with him? He's super friendly. Should I hangout with him alone, or with someone else tagging along? And where should we go? Or do???????? im 16/F thanks.
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Maybe your conversation is boring due to the fact you worry too much. just relax and be yourself. Before you moved, you guys were friends and you didn't worry about those things. But now your e in a different place, so mix it up and BE YOUR SELF. If you want to make conversations non boring talk about something that you both like, Maybe it will lead you to something more than friendship. Or not. IT is your choice!
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hmm. Since you mentioned your pretty sure he's gay, I'm assuming your intentions are being friends and definitely not hoping for this friendship to turn into something else...
SO advice for ideas on how to hang out with a hopefully good future friend! :D haha
First off, I would tell him to bring ONE GUY friend and you bring ONE GIRL friend. With that in mind...
You could:
A) Go to Starbucks and just hang out/talk. It's always a good idea when trying to get to know someone plus, with four of you, I'm sure conversation won't get boring.
B) Have a movie marathon at your house! The rest will just go from there. You'll probably end up going to that park by your house or something.
C) OR you could have a small get together with a couple friends and invite him and tell him to invite some of his friends.
D) Just have him come over to hang out. Have some food, movies, games, ext.
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