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I still love him.


Question Posted Sunday March 1 2009, 11:35 am

Well... hi. (Sorta long... sorry )


I have this friend his name is Matt... and I really love him. I finally told him exactly how I felt about him. I told him I loved him.. and I really do. He told me... that he has a girl friend and he likes me as a friend .... nothing more. So... I am really hurt and I told him that... we worked everything out and were still friends...but.. I STILL love him. I CAN'T get him out of my MIND. My heart aches all the time... because he has someone else. I don't want to get up in the morning to go to school because he's there and every time I see him... in the hallway... or anything...I feel like I am going to cry. I really don't know what to do anymore. I want to be happy and find someone who loves me back, but there's no other guy that I love more than Matt. Can someone help me out ?


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Additional info, added Sunday March 1 2009, 12:01 pm:
Also... do you think he will change his mind maybe, do you think he might like me ? His girl friend goes to a different school than us. He's a 8th grader I am a 7th grader she's a 8th grader. Do you think that's why he doesn't like me because I am a grade lower than him? Well, the other day my friends and I ( Taylor , and Shalia) were walking down the hallway. ( We were singing that song by soldier boy kiss me threw the phone ...lol ) When, we turned the corner I saw Matt he looked at me I was like " hiiiiii"!!! ( That was the first time I talked to him in school) My friend said as we walked away he looked at me like I was hot. lol That's what my friend Shalia said... and taylor agreed. So... do you think he and that girl will ever break up? Like , they go 2 different schools and he only see's her probably when he goes to his dads. Do , you think we will ever have a chance ?
Thanks
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cederian answered Sunday March 1 2009, 5:10 pm:
if hes a good guy which im probably sure he is then thats not the reason he might just not wanna risk the friendship because if you two were to get together and didnt work out it would make the relationship all weird so consider that it might just be him trying to protect the friend ship . and also if if hes just not interested then you should find someone that is because its not fun being in love all by yourself trust me i know how that hurts . its a feeling of missing something and ait hurts like hell .

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greatadvise-x answered Sunday March 1 2009, 12:19 pm:
hello, okay it sounds like you really like this guy but the thing is you have to try and move on. no matter how much you think you love him you have to let go of the ones you love. Sacrifice is one of the things you have to go through. If he likes you he will come to you and tell him how hard it is. His girlfriend might not be around for long but he will always have someone else if he does not feel the same. go on some dates who knows you might find someone who loves you back.
thankyou
xxx

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