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Double Date Drama..
Okay..so..yesterday..me and my boyfriend went on a date with his best friend..and his girlfriend.
I thought that everything was going pretty good..we were all getting along and stuff.
But then..one of my best friend's has first hour with the other girl that we went on the date with..and she was saying a whole lot of crap about me..like how i acted so stupid..and how i was really annoying..and all that kind of stuff..
SO..just in case i'm thrown with her again..what do i do to make sure i dont piss her off? she acted really nice on the date..but then at school..she apparently didnt like me. she's only a grade above me..a year..maybe 2 year's age difference..i was quiet on the date unless i was talked too..she talked to me some. i thought i acted pretty okay..
my boyfriend and her boyfriend are best friends..i know im gunna be thrown with this girl again..how can i not " act stupid" or " annoying"
like..what do i talk about if they ask me what's new or something?
i get nervous around people who are older around me..and they're all older..boyfriend's are both seniors..and the other girl is a sophmore..i'm a freshman..
helppppp!
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I wouldn't worry too much about it. Girls are simply vicious. You surely know how some people will put down anyone else. That doesn't mean that you are flawed or did anything wrong. She probably exaggerated just so she could make the story sound better. You two don't have to be friends. You just need to be civil. Plus, like with most tellings of stories you probably aren't getting the same story the girl told. Your friend probably exaggerated it a bit as well. At the very worst, maybe you made a bad impression. Not everyone is going to like you. More than likely 1/3 to 1/2 the people won't. Be pleasant and don't feel you have to be perfect. You can't make anyone like you. Maybe she will like you more if she knows you better. But surely you shouldn't be sad or crying because she's a wet blanket. But if you want to make a better impression then listen to what she says. Add to it if you can. Like if she says she liked a movie that you like "say how you like it ..especially the part where....". that sort of thing works well. also, don't be scared to ask her questions. People are more happy talking about themself than anything usually. Wll good luck. I hope i was a bit of help.
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Girls like to feel powerful and in charge and act like they are the best. She probably feels good when younger or any girls for that matter feel scared of her. When she gets out of HS she will not survive in the world acting like that because while she has her friends now to laugh and agree with her come graduation day when there is no more HS if she is still doing immature things like that people are going to look at her and tell her she needs to grow up and she will feel as little as your feeling right now.
Do Not let her make you feel intimidated! If you have to go out with her again pull her aside and ask her what her problem is with you and if she lies or says she doesn't have a problem with you than she is a girl who talks behind people's back to make herself feel better. You know what bothers people like that the most? When you don't let them bother you, because they feed off of that when they see that they hurt someone they feel good, but when they see what they are doing doesn't affect the person, it makes them mad. Just don't let her bring you down, You seem like a sweet person and shes probably sees that and since shes a witch she doesn't like nice. You keep your head up and don't let her destroy you in any way.
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