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Okay..so..yesterday..me and my boyfriend went on a date with his best friend..and his girlfriend.
I thought that everything was going pretty good..we were all getting along and stuff.
But then..one of my best friend's has first hour with the other girl that we went on the date with..and she was saying a whole lot of crap about me..like how i acted so stupid..and how i was really annoying..and all that kind of stuff..
SO..just in case i'm thrown with her again..what do i do to make sure i dont piss her off? she acted really nice on the date..but then at school..she apparently didnt like me. she's only a grade above me..a year..maybe 2 year's age difference..i was quiet on the date unless i was talked too..she talked to me some. i thought i acted pretty okay..
my boyfriend and her boyfriend are best friends..i know im gunna be thrown with this girl again..how can i not " act stupid" or " annoying"
like..what do i talk about if they ask me what's new or something?
i get nervous around people who are older around me..and they're all older..boyfriend's are both seniors..and the other girl is a sophmore..i'm a freshman..
helppppp!
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Girls like to feel powerful and in charge and act like they are the best. She probably feels good when younger or any girls for that matter feel scared of her. When she gets out of HS she will not survive in the world acting like that because while she has her friends now to laugh and agree with her come graduation day when there is no more HS if she is still doing immature things like that people are going to look at her and tell her she needs to grow up and she will feel as little as your feeling right now.
Do Not let her make you feel intimidated! If you have to go out with her again pull her aside and ask her what her problem is with you and if she lies or says she doesn't have a problem with you than she is a girl who talks behind people's back to make herself feel better. You know what bothers people like that the most? When you don't let them bother you, because they feed off of that when they see that they hurt someone they feel good, but when they see what they are doing doesn't affect the person, it makes them mad. Just don't let her bring you down, You seem like a sweet person and shes probably sees that and since shes a witch she doesn't like nice. You keep your head up and don't let her destroy you in any way.
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Ohkay so Ive been talking to my guy friend sylis on myspace and When I say things like 'whats up?' He replies with stuff like 'nm tired of being single' or 'being on the market isnt as fun as I thought it would be' or 'Just trying to look for someone special'. Is he trying to say something?
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I really hope he is. (link)
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He is trying to say that he wants you! Step in next time and give it right back to him. If he says he hates being single and alone than you should say "so am I" and ask him out if you have to. I'm telling you there is nothing wrong with girls asking a guy out.
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I have upper lip hair its not noticeable but like if someone kisses me will they feel it?
btw I'm a girl so im sure you can imagine how awkward I would feel kissing someone.... (link)
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He wont feel it I promise you. All girls have hair on their upper lip, but the hair is very soft so the guy wont feel it. If it really bothers you the best things to use that is cheap is a cream called Nair. You keep it on for about 5 minutes and when you wipe it off the hair comes off with it, but never shave!!!! Shaving makes the hair tougher which makes it harder to remove, but even then the guy wont feel it when kissing you.
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Sometimes at night weather Im sleeping or not (mostly when im sleeping) my hips will hurt really bad. Usually the pain occurs when I have to pee really bad and when its really cold, and usually after I pee the pain goes away. Is this something to see the doctor about? I just wanted to ask because none of my friends or family have this problem.
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Any pain your experiencing and your not sure what it is or why it's happening you should go to the doctor for it. The fact that your parents or friends don't get this pain doesn't mean anything, actually it's more of a reason why you should go to the doctors. So go and find out what it is, it can be nothing at all but at least you'll know. Hope all goes well!
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ok. um, this is kinda...akward...and scary.
so, me and this guy (we'll call him L) have been going out for the past year. he's one year older than me. L's always been real sweet about the whole sex thing, but lately, he's been...pushing, and i'm kinda scared, cause he's getting kinda angry/violent. i'm scared he's really gonna hurt me, cause he hit me last week when i made him stop, taking of clothes and stuff.
I dont know what to do.
Help?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? (link)
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I am 21 years old. I've been through an abusive relationship, I've been through guys not caring when you say you don't want to have sex. You are you and you don't need a guy like this, I'm telling you go to your parents!!! If you feel they wont understand or you will be in trouble than go to a best friends parent who can help you tell your parents or a teacher or cop. It doesn't matter who you tell as long as it's someone who can help you because telling someone is not worse than what he is doing to you. After you tell someone make sure you go press charges so he doesn't do this to someone else. For the safety of yourself stay away from him because only bad things can come from this.
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Me nd this kid went out nd me nd him really liked each otha..but then i broke up w/him bcuz he decided 2 believe his ex over me bout a certain situation and den we became friends again nd everything is perfect nd we still like each other except we wanna b 2getha but we live 2 far away from each otha nd he lives in NJ nd we c each toha on some weekendsthen like sometimes I feel like just stop being his friend..But question is should we jus stay friends and start forgetting about him or should i stop being his friend temporarily?? (link)
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You guys should definitely stay friends!!! Long distance relationships are difficult. I'm guessing your a young girl who still has her whole life ahead of her, there will be guys and friends who will come and go in your life and you will experience so much in life. One day down the road you two may realize that your meant to be with each other, but you'll never give each other that chance if you give up on your friendship. I know many people who dated young, broke up (but remained friends) and dated other people just to find out that the person they're meant to be with was there all along. Don't give up so easily and even if you two aren't meant to be together you still have a chance of having a life long friend.
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I'm 18/f and a college freshman.
I dated this boy on and off throughout high school, and we were still great friends when our relationship ended this past summer. He had been in a really bad, near fatal car wreck last March, but he was recovering and doing more than the doctors ever said he could.
I found out last Thursday afternoon that he had committed suicide last Wednesday night (he had ODd on his pain pills and they found a near empty bottle of everclear next to his bed). I still don't believe it was suicide... I mean, that's what they're saying, but I know him so well and just can't bring myself to believe it... he must have just been in a lot of pain.. IDK.. I guess it was suicide... Anyway, I've been really incredibly angry that he would do that (suicide or not... all those pills and alcohol!) to me, his mom, and his cousin - the three people who loved him most - not to mention any other friends.
A few years ago, his half sister was killed from drinking and driving, and I can't seem to bring myself to think that he would leave his mom all alone...
Rather than making me sad, I'm just .. pissed off that he would do this - leave us all here to wonder why and to pick up the pieces all over again. I'm even more pissed that he's left me here to deal with his sisters death all by myself (her and I were BEST friends, and I blamed myself for her death)...
Anyway... am I crazy for being so angry with him?! I mean, of course I'm sad that he's gone, but my anger is overpowering every other feeling I have... (link)
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First I want to say sorry for your loss I know it's hard to lose someone you love. You have every right to feel angry towards him and you excepting that you are angry at him will give you piece. When your friend committed suicide he wasn't thinking about how it could affect anyone who loves and cares about it, but that's how people are able to commit suicide it makes it easier on them when they just think of their own pain rather than everyone else's. Let out your anger, because you holding it in makes it worse for you and you feeling like its not right to be angry is also not good. That could be part of the reason why your friend committed suicide because he kept things inside and didn't tell anyone what was truly going on with him and getting help. And just so you know those pain killers can depress people and change the happy person you knew into someone completely different, I've seen it first hand. You just make sure that you talk to people about it and let your anger out and know its ok!
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