Member Since: February 25, 2009
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I've been friends with this guy since I was in 10th grade. I'm 23 now, so we've been friends for awhile. Recently, I got a phone call from this friend. He said that he was upset and he needed to talk. To make a long story short, he needed to borrow $80 to get himself to and from a funeral that was three hours away. I of course lend him the money.
The problem is, he lied about WHY he needed the money. There was no funeral he was attending. His friend didn't die like he said. He was going to some 3-day camping trip with like 500 other people.
He said he would pay me back on the first of the month and that's fine. But should I approach him about the fact that he lied to get money? Or leave it alone? (link)
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in any friendship trust is a big matter. you should ask him about it or ask for some sort of appologie.
cause if he will lie about little things what makes you think he won't lie bout big things!!!
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[dont know what cagegory this goes in]
im so self concious about myself and iv lost all my confidents. i dont know why b'cos i used to be so comfortable with myself. but now im so quiet and i dont have many friends. i just want to feel comfortable and feel good about myself again like the old me...
whats wrong with me and what should i do? i feel like im a loser and i hate myself. =[ (link)
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look in the mirror
and recall all the good things about yourself
or you talents and features,
don't be so negative and surroned yourself with understanding and good people.
make yourself someone, try to think confidently
and how lucky you are...
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:[ my bestfriend holly dumped me for her old friend. I mean she still likes me and all but not as much as she used to. I know that she still likes me because she said she did and i trust her. Every time I try to have alone time with Holllly her friend always takes her away!And hollys friend is secretly mean to me! HOW DO I WIN HOLLY BACK? I miss my friend. please help! (link)
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try to talk to her, it might work
you should also say to her so called bestfriend to back of but dont be so rude you may never know what she could say.
be more open to other people, i know its hard but you might never know what to find. me and my bestie are fighting but i found other friends. it may not be as good but it just needs time.
are u sure its worth it? i mean she dumped you.
talk to me if the problem turns worst
i'll help u
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I told my best friend I loved him because he has said so many times he loves me but he has a GF so today I got so upset and finnaly told him I was falling in love and he said nothing just gave me a blank face so i said I had to go and ran away. I cant talk to him anymore and he wont talk to me. I know I shouldnt have said anyhting and now I dont know what to do. We have tried not talking before because we had dated then broken up and then we strted to talk agian and the feelings came back but stronger so IDK what to do he is my best friend and i have fallin for him but now he wont talk to me. Please someone Help me
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there must be a reason for you breaking up with him and you must stand by it.
its ok to continue being friends just give it time, don't ask all "i like you" to him cause he wont take it seriously. i know its hard to pretend you don't like him but you'll find someone someday.
try to be more open to other people either in finding a boyfriend or just plain friends.
and support him!!! in everything and yes i also mean his relationship remind him that your a good friend and maybe in time something good would happen...
need any more advise i have a yahoo messenger Rescue_Me_Therapy@yahoo.com
good luck!!!
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Ok, here gos.
My Bestfriend "Jess" go dumped by her boyfriend "Frank"... for his Ex girlfriend... like a month ago or something.
"Jess" still really likes him. She talks about him all the time!
When they were going out, he was tellin me things like: "I really like you!" and "If I wasnt going out with 'jess' I'd totally go out with you."
I didn't even like him then...
But I really like him now!
But i know if i go out with him, "Jes" will get really angry.
what to do?
P.S: Sorry this is so long! (link)
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its a mather of which is more important your bestfriend or some guy.
remember besties are forever there are plenty of guies out there.
especially if your bestie still likes him, are u willing to risk your friendship?
personally i don't think its worth i am mean he was practically flirting with you while dating your friend!!!
dosn't that speak bad news all over?
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OK, my friend just got an online boyfriend not too long ago. She said that he's really, really cute, sweet, that she loves him, & that he's only 16! I was in a chat with them a month or so ago, and he was acting pretty shady. So a month ago, I made a fake AOL account & IMed him. I asked him all the normal crap, like "asl?" (I said I was 21)and even "are you going out with anyone?" He replied by saying "I'm a little older, around 27, & I'm surprisingly single!" I told my friend later, that he could be unloyal, and she got so mad, she didn't speak to me for days! Should I print off the chat & show it to her? I really don't want to, cuz I don't wanna hurt her! Help!!! (link)
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if she was really your friend she would have believed you, you could try to convince her again telling her something like "your my friend, why would i lie to you?" or "i only want the best for you" if say this those not work, think about it. is she really a friend? if yes then as a last result you should print out the chat, but that might cause more proublems and its kinda risky so i really suggest to sit down and just talk to her as much as possible, and if she gets mad at you and you really want to continue as her friend lay low on the subject for a moment.
hope this helps
need more advice? just ask me
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I have a best friend. We've been friends for about three years, and she used to be a really cool person. She's still a nice person, but she's changed. She smokes and drinks occasionally, sends naked pictures of herself to guys, does so while she has a boyfriend, and hangs out with a...well, slutty girl who is a horrible influence on her. She won't tell me about this stuff, but I hear it from other people. I confronted her about it, and she said she was scared to tell me about it because she thought I'd freak out and throw her out of my life. She only partially admitted to doing these things, and I keep hearing more about her everyday. I have a lot of good people in my life, and a lot of friends. It's sad to me that she's turning into such an insecure moron lately. How should I handle this? It's getting exhausting to be her friend, not to mention it's not a great feeling to see someone you care about be so stupid and lie about it. (link)
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i'll take it that she is a great person, sit down and talk to her, make her reflect on her past self and she may stap out of it, be concerned and tell her something like "Iam doing this beacuse i care about you and i dont want you to get hurt"
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