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lil more info on the "trust" thing.
thank you for answering my other question, but i have a little more info on the trusting my mom issue. see latly iv been thinking about sex. I know im not ready yet, but i also know that the whole 'sex' decision is not too far off. when i was younger, my mom would tell me that when sex became something to me, that she would be supportive, that she would get me birth control and that i could always talk to her. well now i dont think i can trust her with it when i am ready. it scares me a bit.
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Hey hun.
To be totally honest, I'm not surprised it scares you a bit. Your mum doesn't really like your boyfriend already and I'm guessing bringing sex into it isn't going to go down too well.
BUT, she is your mum and the nicest thing to do would be to try and let her know.
Tell her what you told me - You aren't ready just yet but for when the time comes, you want to know if she will still help you with birth control etc.
If she kicks off, don't make a big deal about it. Just calmly tell her it's okay, because at the end of the day, you can get birth control on your own. Buy your own condoms, see a doc if you want the pill etc.. and you can let her know this. The fact if she doesn't help you doesn't mean you're not going to do it.
If she doesn't come around by the time you start having sex and she's still being stubborn about your boyfriend, there will always be people to talk to (not including your mum) so don't ever think you'll be on your own if a problem should arise.
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