Question Posted Wednesday February 18 2009, 5:32 pm
Hi, I'm a 17 year old female. and I have been in a relationship with a guy for almost a year and a half. we've been really close our whole relationship. until about 4 months ago, when I started liking someone else. It turned into a huge mess, we fought, and broke up. I was with the other guy a lot. and eventually I realized that i didn't like the other guy and I missed my ex. so after a lot of hard work, we got back together. and we have been pretty good, got back to our old relationship, but there has always been a trust issue. he doesn't trust me and i know it. even if he says he does, he just does things that prove he doesn't. I'm starting to just be over it. I love him of course, but I don't really want to be in a relationship anymore. I'm going to college next year and we're gonna break up anyway. but we go to a SMALL highschool and have the same friends. I would feel alone and be littled if i broke up with him. plus, he thinks I like someone else, so he'd freak and shit would hit the fan. I feel horrible because I don't know how to act. I still act how I used to, but I don't feel the same inside. what should i do??
Shawn answered Thursday February 19 2009, 12:53 am: My advice is that you end it now, before it gets
even more serious than it already is, and thus
causing the healing process for the both of you to
need even more time. [ Shawn's advice column | Ask Shawn A Question ]
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