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How do i talk to him?
Ok well im a freshman and i had a "thing"(like we almost went out) with this junior, we really liked each other, a couple of months ago, but things didnt work out i guess. But then we still kinda had feelings for each other, well he did, and like a month later he asked me out on a date, but the thing was, I figured out that he smoked and never told me about it (and he still doesnt know I know) and I dont go out with guys how do that stuff. So i said no, which was really hard because I still liked him. And then things were never the same between us. But now, im started to have feelings for him again:/ But the thing is, im pretty sure he doesnt have feelings for me; he hardly talks to me& he barely texts me anymore. But my friend is like oh he does have feeling for you, hes just afraid of showing it. I doubt that. But it seems like hes going through a lot and thats why he turned to smoking, and i kinda want to like help him through it because it doesnt seem like anyone else is trying to. And i know he is a really good kid deep down, he even goes to church. But we arent very close anymore, so how would I go about doing that?
Oh and hes been flirting with one of my good friends now, and he doesnt know that me and my friend are friends. And shes the one that informs me of this smoking thing.
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Just start talking to him again! Try to rekindle. And let him know that you're there for him no matter what. He probably needs someone like that. Try just plain talking to him or try to get him to talk about what he's going through. Everyone needs that one person. And you being his "person" will most likely rekindle what yall had a long time ago. Tell him the truth and why you said no to his date, he has probably given up because you gave off the vibe that you didn't have feeling for him anymore.
Hope I helped!
-Jenna
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