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Question Posted Sunday February 15 2009, 8:48 am

You were working out a problem with friend or yours. He/she gets angry because of a few emails because you were telling him/her how you felt and all. You have this friend on your friends list. Boom this friend deletes you and your other friend for no reason. But you look back at the problem and see what went wrong. you find out you and your other friend are at fault somewhat, but the other person is more at fault for deleting you for no reason. Then you apologize to your friend that deleted you for no reason in an email, message, letters and did two cards and sent them in the mail. There is no reply to the emails or anything, but you were told it takes a while for your friend to get things. Does this mean things are okay between your friend okay? is there any way to tell if things are okay do you think this friend will accept my friend and I's apologies? We really meant no harm and didnt mean for things to get out of hand. thanks. :)

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Razhie answered Sunday February 15 2009, 10:01 am:
You really need to let this go.

This degree of concern, with someone you knew over a social networking site, is unhealthy.

You will only know if your apology is accepted if this person tells you so, and they might choose not too. They might choose not to address this issue anymore with you. As I said in my previous advice to you on this issue, it would be perfectly fair ad respectful for a person you only knew through a social networking site to choose to have no more to do with you. They have NO moral obligation to speak to you again. Ever.

You apologized for what you think you did wrong, and that was the correct thing to do. Now you need to stop worrying about it, and let this person do, or not do, whatever they wish. You can't read their mind and you might never know what they think. Respect that and move on.

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