Question Posted Saturday February 14 2009, 7:41 am
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we made up AGAIN, but the next day we went to my house to play. But, she started to get really moody again. We decided to go downstairs to take some pictures and i suggested that we change our clothes. We changed and then Lo said, 'nevermind, i'm not going.' so we went to find Fi and asked her to come with us. We asked lo again if she wanted to come, she said no, even if shes gonna be alone at my house. So we went down and took a bunch of pics and had lots of fun, but when we went back up we asked if lo wanted to leave with Sarah, Dion and Fi. She said she'll go herself. THIS IS MY HOUSE, does she think if she wants to stay she can stay?! So after that she stayed in computer room and played the computer. Then she went to find me and asked me what time she should go and asked if i could see the pics we took. After that she left saying a happy goodbye, like not even a moody goodbye. OK, so we're ok now? NO we are not. After that she said she officially want to stop being friends with us. Then she made up with Fi thru msn, even if i told fi i don't want to be friends with lo and neither does dion. but fi said she doesn't want to see lo being sad everyday.and we have a project together for school, without lo, we cant do it because also we already told the teacher what groups we'll split into and with whom. What should i do?! I really dont want to be friends with Lo but i want to be friends with Fi! And to do the project! and i'm also locker buddies with lo! ARGH!!!! Any advice? And she just got her period like 2 days ago, is it pms?
you may want to talk to her parents or talk to her, just you and her. and try to get deep into her mind to see whats really bugging her. or, use reverse psychology.
just end the friendship. go along with her "wishes" and end it. and if it really is because shes bipolar, she'll change her mind quickly and run back to you. then, and only then, you can get the answers you want, because she'll do anything to keep your friendship if she really appreciates you. :) [ laynemayhem's advice column | Ask laynemayhem A Question ]
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