Question Posted Thursday February 12 2009, 9:41 pm
We are moving and I will have to leave my golf coach that I have had for 3 years now. I miss him already because today I had my last lesson with him. I love him so much(I dont have a crush on him or anything that would be creepy cause he is like 30 or somthing) I will die without having my lessons with him. I DONT WANT TO LEAVE!!!! How do I deal with this? I have moved around many (around 8) times in my life and have never really been emotional about the move. This time I'm dying inside. I love golf and the only way I could of gotten to the point I am in the game is with my coach. He is one of my best friends. I can't live withought my best friend/coach. How will I deal with this? I just wish he could adopt me or somthing. please help! I would problay rather live on the course and have my coach than live in a nice house with my family. I can't stop crying and I can't show anyone that I am crying(my family isnt very tight and if I show any sign of weakness I will be punneshed). I can't talk to anyone about it. I JUST WANT MY COACH BACK!!!! Please help me!!!
Additional info, added Thursday February 12 2009, 9:49 pm: I'm really getting depressed about this. And don't tell me that I can find someone else, I will never find someone like him. He was the best coach ever and I loved him, I can't find someone else like him. I know there are other coaches out there but no one like him.. Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category? Maybe give some free advice about: Sports? Paulley answered Saturday February 14 2009, 10:13 pm: I'm sorry. This happens a lot. The only way to deal with it is to deal with it. I know people always say stuff like, you can always find someone else like that, but every person is unique and everyone knows that. I moved from my friends too, and it's really, really, difficult, and there's nothing you can do about it because your parents will probably move no matter what you say. But, even though i remember thinking i would never recover when i moved, i did recover. It took about a week, but i'm fine now, and i think you will be later too. That's all i can really say. [ Paulley's advice column | Ask Paulley A Question ]
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