k so im confused.
so i met him last year, and i have been pretty good friends with him since.
he confuses me so much!
ok heres the gist of things.
-there will times when i dont talk to him for months! we drift apart all the time!
-i didnt even see him all summer, but he liked me. i texted him alot during the summer.
-at the start of the year this year, we hardly talked. now im getting to see him again cuz we are both in our school's musical.
-he told me recently we need to talk more, and has been talking to me a lot ever since
-he has always flirted with me.
-calls me babe, says im sexy, cute etc. all the time and when i say stuff like "yeah right" he says hes serious, that hes not joking. i dont know whether to believe him?
-gives me comments alot.
Example: him:did you get your hair cut?
me: yeah why?
him: i like it its really cute
-now he likes texts me 24/7. but i dont know if he likes me. ALSO i might like this other guy, who also flirts with me alot; and im not sure if he likes me either!
not to mention one of my best friends hates both of these guys.
but what do you guys think? do you think this guys likes me? should i come right out and ask him? or should i just keep doing what im doing?
=// help!
thanks!
AreaAdviceColumnist answered Friday February 6 2009, 7:25 am: Usually I'm pretty long winded, but this one is pretty easy. With regard to our mystery guy, the answer is simple, YES he likes you. No guy does that kind of thing unless he likes you - the compliments, the constant texting, etc. The problem is what to do from there. Do you want an exclusive relationship? A date at the movies? It sounds like you are interested in two guys so it doesn't sound like you want a boyfriend right now.
Anyway, you can ask him if he likes you, but, I assure you, he does like you. Now it all depends on what you want.
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