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my best friend got a boyfriend before me
My best friend got a boyfriend a week ago and were 14 .we ve been best friends since grade 2 and shes had a lot of boyfriends and i havent had one yet and ever since she started to date him shes been blowing me off .She used to pick me for everything and now she always talks about him and is always with him.Eveyone At school is like "when are you going to get a boyfriend " . Ive tried to send her hints that its bugging me but she doesnt see it that it is .
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I think yuo should talk to your best friend and tell her how you feel.Tell her that its bugging you that she always leaves you for her boyfriend and that you want ot hang out with her more.Remember...dont let the boyfriend out of the picture.If your best friend understands,invite her and her boyfriend to a movie or something so that you can all hang out.And....I know there is a special guy out there waiting for you.GOOD LUCK!!
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you shouldnt be jealous that she has a boyfriend. but, you are only human, afterall.
instead, try to be more happy for her. its not fair for her to be happy, but her best friend only be jealous.
but its also not fair to you that she always spends time with him. i have a boyfried, too. and my friends always get mad that i spend more time with him than i do with them. but its not my fault i make plans with him before they ask me to hang out.
so what you need to do is call her and ask her if you guys can hang out sometime during the week. and be sure to plan it sometime ahead so her bf doesnt all of a sudden ask her to hang out. tell her you want to go to the mall or go to her house to watch a movie or just do something that you guys always do. and ask her not to talk about her bf, because this is you guys' time together.
i hope i helped, and good luck.
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