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Feelings for best guy friend
(16/f)
Hey everyone.
Basically, i have feelings for my best guy friend. We've met in September and have been so close ever since. He likes this other girl, also my good friend, and is always constantly talking about her to me, asking me for advice on what to do and everything. No one knows how i feel inside and i don't know what to do. We have such a wonderful friendship and i would love to keep it like this. He's such a great guy, and i don't want my feelings to ruin anything. I really do want to have JUST that friendship bond with him, but i can't control my feelings. I'm trying to stop my feelings but right now, it's so hard. I'm really trying to be that best friend in his life, and i just want him and I to be happy. I really don't deserve to feel this way. What should I do?
Thank you.
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WOW.. you basically described the same exact situation i have been in before. I also had a really close guy friend who i had known for some years and liked him a lot ever since i saw him, but i kept my feelings to myself. He later went on to asking out other girls and i tried not to get upset. In the end, he ended up asking me for advice on how to ask my best friend out...we havn't talked in about year and a half.
If you really like him, you have to SAY SOMETHING! There will always be the chance of risking your friendship, but if you two are as close as you say, then i am sure that you guys will be able to make through it. If you wait too long, you may be stuck in the 'friend zone' which will only cause you to get hurt. Tell him how you feel! if he returns your feelings, then woo-hoo for you! if not, then as i said before, i'm sure you'll be able to make through it. stop sitting around and waiting for a miracle to happen! take some action! Wish you the Best of Luck!!! =D
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hmm tough situation, theres nothin much you can do especially when your friend is involved. if you dont want to ruin your friendship i suggest you dont tell him just yet. if your friends not interested in him, you should tell her to tell him to back off. with her out of the way itd be a lot easier to get across how you feel. good luck, i feel for ya girl :(
x sweeethoney
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