Question Posted Saturday January 31 2009, 11:44 pm
Okay so i have been talking to this guy, and he is always really nice and we've become really good friends. So a month or two after we've been talking, he tells me he likes me and that he wants to go out on a date sometime. So we have been talking every day since, and we haven't gotten the chance to hang out. But he still continued to talk to me in school and text me and whatever, and we're always flirting.
So today he told me to go online because he had a question that was important. So i go and he tells me this girl was being really flirty last night, and i noticed he didnt text me last night. So he told me that this girl wanted to hang out with him tomorrow, and she mentioned something about hooking up.
He says he doesn't really like her, he just wants to hook up with her. (He claims he's 'only human')
But then he goes on and tells me that i'm always the girl he's dreamed of having and that he thinks im amazing and he likes me alot. He said that he wont go if it makes me feel mad or uncomfortable.
I mean, ofcoarse i don't want him to go, i get jelous when he talks to other girls. But if he really liked me, he wouldnt go.
And i dont want to tell him what to do because i dont want him to think im a control freak.
What do i do if he goes?
What do i do if he doesnt go?
Help?
KhrystyG answered Sunday February 1 2009, 11:32 am: He wants you to tell him not to go. He wanted to see how jealous you'd get. Guys play stupid games like that just like girls do. Telling him you dont want him to go won't make you seem controlling but it'll prove to him that you really do like him. [ KhrystyG's advice column | Ask KhrystyG A Question ]
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