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Should I make him leave?
I have been with my husband for 10 years. He was an alcoholic when I met him but over the years he slowed down but picked up other habits. On January 14, 2009 his friend passed away from a heart attack he was only 32. My husband did not take it very well. My husband was on pain pills pretty bad but quit for 4 days after his friend died. Well he started acting weird and now he is on pills worse than ever and meaner than hell. Everyday not just 1 day a week he says he wants to die he wishes he wouldn't wake up in the morning. I'm over the negative vibes he is given off. I also have a 8 year old and a 4 year old and I don't think they deserve to see this behavior in thier dad. His behavior is totaly unacceptable right? How should I make him leave and be okay with it?
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It's absolutely no question that his behavior unacceptable especially because he is in the presence of children who don't deserve a second of this. What your husband needs is counseling and perhaps even some sort of out patient rehab treatment. These would vastly improve his life, and the relationship he has with you and your kids. but this is something you should press him on because right now he's wasting his life on something very destructive and unproductive. So it sounds like you're going to have to give him some ultimatums. If his children are important to him then he'll do anything to be the father he should be and not the one they have now
Good luck.
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