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Everyone thinks i'm gay but i'm not
I'm 17 and a regular bloke who likes surfing, movies, footy and drinking. I wouldnt say i have a homosexual trait in me at all. I have never really been called gay before apart from the odd payout, but a couple of weeks ago l was with a few mates and we were having some bongs in my mates shed.. I had about 8 bongs and after that can't remember a thing. I must of blacked out.
From that night onwards everyone has been calling me gay because i must of said something gay or whatever. They've been acting different around me now like i am actually gay. They have been telling everyone else what had happend but not telling me anything. I have asked my mates what happend but they keep denying l did anything.
How do l find out what happend and make them stop thinking im gay?
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I can safely say that I'm going through that right now. Except in my case, it was an invasion of privacy and a complete misunderstanding and now, I've got to do the damage control which sucks.
There really isn't any way for people to stop thinking that you're gay. Just be yourself and people should begin to see that your not different at all. And don't treat your friends differently (not saying that you are, but just in case).
I think it is really important that they should tell you what happened because if they're spreading rumors which aren't true then that's quite serious and I'm still trying to get all the facts which I know are still floating around. Ask them and if they try and beat about the bush, then ask them again and keep on pestering them until one or all tell you what happened. Or ask the people whom have been told what allegedly happened and see if the stories match up with other people. If they don't, then it could be a lie. But if they do, ask your friends again and tell them what you've found out and take it from there as to what you want to do.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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There is no trick to finding out what happened, you are just going to have to hope that one of your 'friends' is actually decent enough to let you know.
There is also no trick to 'proving' you aren't gay. You really are just going to have to wait for it to blow over, remind people it isn't funny, and not get so shitfaced agian that you black out.
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