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So i have a question for the guys. girls can answer too, if they know but prefarably id like to know how the guy feels about it. Okay, so when a girl hooks up with a guy 90% of the time, she devolps some sort of feelings or crush for that guy. My question is, how do guys feel about it. And what if they hook up more than once, like timeseperated by monthes. That must mean that something keeps bringing them back. Or do they just come back for an easy, unnattached hookup? Can guys just hook up with girls and have no feelings at all? I dont get it!
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Guys were born with a LOT of testosterone and hormones that exceed our limit. Most guys kind it comforting to just sleep around and be perfectly comfortable doing it without starting a relationship. It's in their mentality and a lot of guys don't know any better. If you don't want to get hurt - stay in a relationship and get to truely know the guy before you sleep with him so you're not getting used by all of the other helpless victims out there. Good Luck!
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im a girl, and ive never hooked up with anyone before. but i have a few friends who have. one friend has hooked up with one guy about 3 times. he didnt develope any feelings for her, but she really liked him.
my other friend had a relationship with two of the guys for a while, (at different times, of course) and then it went down the drain both times.
it really depends on the guy, i guess. if he hooks up with one girl and then goes to see another girl 2 nights later, hes not gonna develope feelings for any of them, since there are so many.
girls are different. we're more sensitive and loving. thats why we're always hurt when we find out something is just "friends with benefits" or "just a quick hookup"
my advice to you is DO NOT hook up. whether you like him or not, it'll end up in tears. id choose a movie night with the girls over hooking up any time ;)
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I read in Cosmo this month that 80 something percent of guys believe that a hookup CAN develop into a relationship. Undoubtedly this depends on the circumstances. Yes, guys can hook up with a girl purely for fun and no commitment. But, girls can too. The only way you'll know for sure is if you ask him how he feels about it. It might be just a casual hookup for him, or he could be thinking the same thing you are right now. None of us are mindreaders ;]
-LM
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