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is this considered controlling and abusive
my recently ex boyfriend didn't like my friends because they said some mean things about him. i wasn't aloud to talk to them or go with them... but we go and hang around with his...after many fights over 6mths and him breaking things because of this and him not trusting me. after 2 break-ups we were fighting almost everyday...finally he again brought his mother into our fight to get her to side with him. i called my mother just so that she could lisen because he left and i had no one to talk to.i felt alone and he didn't think i should of called my mother..anyhow we broke up for the 3rd time would this mean that we wern't in love and that he was controlling and abusive
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Yes, it's controlling of your boyfriend to not allow you to talk to your friends. He doesn't have to like your friends, but he has no right to stop you from seeing them.
There must be a reason why you broke up. You may still love him, but if you're fighting all the time then you're not right for each other. Spend some time with your friends and stop worrying about the ex.
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Breaking up doesn't mean anything except that two people have decided they don't work well togeather anymore as a couple.
He IS controlling and a bit of a jackass he. He would have been controlling and a bit of a jackass if you had chosen to marry him, or if you broke up with him. Either way, he'd still be the person he is, and that person doesn't sound very nice.
Only you can decide what you feel, and if you were in love or not. It's okay to love a controlling asshole, it's just not okay to stay with them.
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