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Question Posted Monday January 26 2009, 1:13 am

14/f

Ok so I've been going out with this guy for like a month. I don't see him alot. Mostly like once or twice a week. I really like him but I feel really nervous around him. My friends tell him to talk to me and he does. And I just don't know why. He will be like, "so how was your week?" I would say, "boring" or whatever else because nothing really happens. Then he will say what happened with him and I would be like, "oh..cool" Then I would make it all awkward. I don't feel as nervous as I did before but I've been thinking like, "what if he doesn't like me?" "what if he likes some other girl at his school" We don't go to the same school. Now his friend and I were talking and he said that my boyfriend told him that he thought I didn't like him. I told him I still do and so on. So now since I barely talk to him he is gonna think I don't like him and I'm gonna ruin everything. What am I supposed to do? I like him so much and he is like all I think about. Before I thought stuff like I bet he never even thinks about me and I'm here falling head over heels for him. But I guess not? I know he likes me but I am one of those girls who are really doubtful. Anyway to help me? Thanks!


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isaytoyou answered Tuesday June 9 2009, 4:03 pm:
I think that you shouldn't worry about whether or not you ruined it. You certainly didn't ruin anything. How do I know this? Because if he had feelings for you, he wouldn't stop talking to you just because he heard from someone that you might not like him anymore. If he's not talking to you.. it's because he doesn't want to be more than friends. Simple as that. You're young, you shouldn't worry too much about little things like this. Just go with the flow. There's lots of other guys out there. If he liked you, he would say more than just "how was your week" once in a while. Hope I helped..

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