hey ..about the message before.. in grade 7 he was in my homeroom and we werent reallly tight we were friends though and then in grade 8 he was in 1 of my option classes and i talked to him way more.. but this year we are not or have not been in the same clases i got his number last summer and text him ocationally. in october i recognised how much i like him ..way more than a friend so i told people and he found out but he said he wanted to be single and when my friend asked him if he would date me he said no because we never talk and he thinks im really shy but im not shy i actually talk alot but its just around him i get all nervous and get butterflys in the stomach. so now my friend says if i talked to him more he would like me so one day my friend talked to him again and he said that the guy i like said i would go andtalk to him if i liked him but if i was nervous then hell wait till im comfortable ..so this friday i texted him and we talked for 1 hour and a half and he didnt just do one word answers i asked him what he was doing this weekend and he told me a hockey touranment in cold lake and the he asked me another question so how should i approach this situation?
thanks
loveboys
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? THINKPOSITIVE7 answered Sunday January 25 2009, 8:05 pm: Hmm just take it slow donr try to rush into a relationship, but try to be more open and direct so he wont think you are shy..once he really gets to know you he will know that you arent shy at all and this will be no problem. Text him ocassionaly but also give him a chance to text or call you first to see if he actually enjoys talking with you. Once you two really start to get to know eachother you wont need to know how to reaact because it will be natural.Remember just because you like him doesnt mean that you two will definitley be in a realtionship.From what you are saying to me he sounds like he might be interested but then again guys are hard to read at times but if he is consisitent with talking with you, you will know the interest is there just let it happen go with the flow..i hope this was what you needed to hear..you can ask me any question you need regarding anything do not hesitate..update me on the progress and I can guide you along the way if you need it.
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