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Does he want to be with me?
Female, 14-
So me and this guy have messed around, and have been talking since then. Every time we talk I get butterflies. The problem is, he is 17 years old. And I am 14. My whole family knows him, but doesn't really like him. He always tells me how much he misses me and how much he wants to be with me. We aren't dating, but it does definitely seem like it. We are friends, and I trust him soo much, he trusts me too. But I don't know if he really likes me or what?
What do you think?
-Andii
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Well, I guess that the real question is: if you have "messed around" (Which can get him thrown in jail, by the way) and he says he wants to be with you... then why aren't you "dating?" What it sounds like from here is that he wants to have someone to "mess around" with and stay "single" so he can tell other girls he isn't "dating" anyone.
Sadly, an awful lot of people do this. Both guys and girls pull the same games.
I hope it didn't work out that way for you, but what you write here in this question sounds like hundreds of other questions that have been asked before, and the odds are in favor of it working out badly.
If by "messed around" you meant that you have had sexual contact (any kind, and yes it is all sex in the eyes of the law and most thinking people) then this young man is headed for jail if anyone finds out about this.
Please think about your future, and stop "messing around" with guys that don't like you enough to even date you. You only hurt yourself and the people that care about you.
I wish you the best for your life.
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omg this sounds exactly like a relationship i used to be in like 4 days ago...then he sent me a naked picture of himself and i pratically killed him for that..anyway i would ask him what kind of realtionship you guys are in because its always dangerous when ppl arent sure wat type of realtionship theyre in
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Messed around? Are you sexually active? If so...big mistake. In my opinion, you're too young to be sexually active as you don't fully know yourself or life yet. You messed around but you aren't even dating? Do you plan to make it a habit of sleeping with friends? What if you have many friends? If you have had a sexual encounter at 14 yrs. old, how many sexual encounters will you have by the time your 20?
That said, I think you should not be seeing him. He will turn 18 within 12 months and then it will be illegal for him to "mess around" with you.
Take up volleyball.
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