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Annoying kid
there is this kid on my bus who is really annoying but he thinks we are best friends. in the classes i have with him he always follows me around and it gets kind of embarrassing. he also tells me and the other girl on my bus how we are ugly and why. he always tries to make my life seem terrible. he has no friends and i dont want to hurt his feelings, but how do i get rid of him?
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well u dont want to hurt him. just give him subtle hints like take a new route to classes so he cant find you, or when he talks to u.. answer with few words and act like ur busy talking to someone else. but if that doesnt work out and he cant take the hint, confront him and tell him that it hurts when he calls you and your friends ugly and it doesnt seem like something a friend would say and you think he should change his attitude. maybe he will and he can be less annoyi ng
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You are not required to be nice to someone who is a pain in the ass.
You don't have to be mean, or cruel. Its not about purposefully hurting his feelings. Its about being honest and up front about the fact that everything about him bothers you and you would prefer that he leave you alone.
The next time he tells you something like "youre ugly" respond with something like
"Thats very rude, if you can't find something nicer than that to talk about, don't talk to me at all"
Be firm, be honest, and be short. Don't go into a diatribe about how much he annoys you or all the things he does. Just simply let him know that you think he's a rude person and you don't associate with people who don't know how to not be creepy jerks who follow you around.
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