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What is the problem? Is it just mind games again?
hey
i asked this question before but something else happened.. ill just explain everything again. i work at mcdonalds and i like my manager.. i am 16 and a half and he just turned 20.. he makes fun of me as a joke because im really clumsy and trip over alot, and he tells people i laugh alot and get embarrased easily. we were messaging each other a couple of weeks ago and he asked me what qualities i liked in a guy and i told him, and then he replied saying "It sounds like youre trying to drop a hint..I can get fired for fraternising with crew" and i replied saying "Ha dont flatter yourself :)" and then he replied saying "I never do, but is it just coincidence that i loosely fit what you just described?" and i said: "I guess it is a coincidence because i dont know much about you" then he said "Well i say that rules are there to be broken, you just cant get caught" and i said "Yeah true"
anyway at work he acted the same as before but he always put me on the position i liked to do most and he kept looking at me and staring. then i texted him on new years saying "best wishes for 2009" but he didnt reply, and he didnt reply to the message i sent asking him how long he will be staying as manager for.
then i didnt talk to him for a week and last sunday he was acting pretty cold towards me and i didnt know why. he just didnt talk to me. then the next day he got told that he has to move to another store (they said he doesnt get along with the store manager and assistant store manager and because he cant handle when it gets busy). and from then on he just hasnt talked to me and when i ask something he replies in just Yes or No.
today at work he was a bit kinder. and so i messaged him about 2 or 3 hours ago saying "If youre over hating me, come to a party with me tomorrow night :)"
and he hasnt replied.
whats his deal?
thanks
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
He doesn't know if you like him, and being a manager and not wanting to lose his job means he's just trying to cut it off.
If you like him, find a new job and express more serious interest, or get a transfer to another McDonalds.
If its just a passing fancy, be polite but stop texting him and asking him out to stuff.
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He likes you, but you aren't worth the trouble.
I'm not a mind reader, it might not be that, but frankly, that is a pretty simple situation to read.
He's a attracted to you, but between the rules at work, the drama at work and the age difference, he's probably decided going after you is not worth the stress and confusion it would cause. So he's cut you out.
Stop texting him. In a few weeks drop by his new location with a friend and chat him up for a minute. If he is still cold then, forget about him. He's made up his mind.
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