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My friend is having an affair....
My friend is having an affair with a married man. Side note: This is her 4th affair with a married man in our office! Anyway, I recently found out he is also having an affair with another woman in the office (yes, we all work at the same company). This man (I use that term loosely) has told my friend he loves her and will leave his wife for her. I say, 'poppycock'. He recently helped the other woman buy a home by giving her a down payment of $27,000. He's bought my friend a watch, so she always knows what the time is and always remembers to meet him! My friend knows nothing of this other woman....I feel the need to tell her. Should I? Or should I keep this a secret and let her find out by herself? Which, I believe, she eventually will. Argh! This is killing me! I don't want to hurt her, but I think she needs to know. Right?
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ohhh boy, what a soap opera huh? Just feel lucky you are on the outside looking in. I didn't tell a coworker about the affair I knew her husband was having, and she ended up with VD and had a miscarriage. She was so possesive of him I felt that she would think I was lying and wanted him myself. I should have told her, but yet I doubt she would have believed me. Which may be the case with your friend too. Is there any way you can put the evidence in front of her so you don't actually tell her. If you can't do that hint to her instead. Anyone who has half a brain knows "If a man will cheat for you, they will also cheat on you"
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