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Well. Theres this guy and omg he is just amazing. But theres one problem i like him but im really confused because i talk to him on yahoo messenger and myspace etc. and like i get along with him on there more than i do in person. We dont really talk in person. And his friends told me he's gonna ask me out on Valentines Day. But idkk. How can i start talking to him in person? Because everytime i try to he just like ignores me basicalyy.
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Ok dont say "the both of us are nervous in person" that just will make things more awkward. And i dont know what kind of response he would give besides turning red. You want to start off by saying.. hey, but make it a flirty hey, like light voice and a cute smile [smile with lips and eyes] like your actually happy to see him. Then you kind of just start talking about things that are going on right then or a great thing to do is mention something that went on in your texts so that you guys acknowledge the fact that you talk via text a lot.Everyone feels more comfortable not having to talk. But even texting sometimes can be awkard because you might not have anything to talk about after saying hi so you take a long time to text back or give those lame answers such as "ok". I have the same problem though, barely talking in person but texting were like different people. I think he.ll ask me on valentines time day too. lol i say just go with the flow and try not to act to nervous because you want to be yourself and real.
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just dont take no for an answer :P if you wanna talk to him, you talk to him! things are allways easier to say over Msn or yahoo instant messengers. but maybe he's shy or confused about you too.
im in your situation with a girl i like too
anyways hope i helped
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Hi,
Humm, that sounds kind of weird to me. The only thing I can think is that is just as nervous as you are when it comes to talking to you in person. A lot of people are that way. They find it easier to express themselves when they are writing. That way they don't have to give you eye to eye contact. It's just insecurity.
The only way you can do it is to break the ice and start talking. Say to him, "I guess the both of us are kind of nervous in person. That should do it and get you off to a good start. Hope I helped! :)
Good luck,
Ediemarie
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