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...Did he cheat...?
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I have no idea why the question comes up now, (It's been almost 8 months) I guess I'm just curious.
My exboyfriend and I dated for five years, I left him in May (I do not wish to discuss why) during our relationship we were miserable. One time while we were dating he mentioned we should get to know other people and he mentioned one girl that he liked back in high school, (He mentioned he liked her 5 years later by the way) meaning that he has no idea where she is etc. However I didn't think anything of it at the time because we were in a 5 year relationship and I always thought it would be impossible for him to cheat on me anyway seeing he NEVER left his apartment. Okay, Well I recently found him on Facebook and he is in a relationship with antoher girl and it's the same girl he mentioned while we were dating?!?!?! Not that I care really I don't, I moved on also but the fact that it occassionally crosses my mind... I wanted to know if he cheated on me. During our relationship he used to always say mean things to me like (I don't think this is working out, We don't have anything in common, We are two different people, We should move on etc) However, He never had the guts to leave me...and I eventually got fed up with him and left him.
What do you think?
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Okay... Forgive me if I sound harsh but I have to say...
1. No one on this website can tell you whether he did cheat or not. If you really want to know the truth, just ask him.
2. I'm wondering if you're really over this guy. The reason I wonder is because I too once had a boyfriend that acted very strangely. I never considered that he may be cheating on me during our relationship. We were together on and off for about 2-3 years... And after the last time we broke up, my friend D. came to me with a confession. D. had been friends with my ex, but he was closer to me... He told me that he was fairly certain that my ex had cheated on me while were together with a woman that all three of us worked with. Maybe this information should have disturbed me... But it didn't. Because I was over him.
And I'd like to add that... If you're not over him, that's okay. You guys were together for a long time, so it stands to reason that it might take a while for the wounds to heal completely. If so, take your time. I don't know. I could be wrong. I just think that if it really bothers you, maybe you should think more about the 'why.'
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Well it could be that he did cheated on you, or it could of been the fact that he didnt cheat on you, he wanted to break up with you but didnt know how to tell you and prbaly didnt want to hurt you . Maybe he had this gurl on his mind and as soon as yall broke up he went straight to her. Im not saying thats what happen but it could be a possiblity.
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