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I hate my moms bf
im 16 and my moms boyfriend is an ass.
he talks constantly and gives 2 hour lectures about random stuff and gets pissed if i try to walk away (he lives in the house). Recently Ive been getting into a couple fights with him and I told my mom next time i'm going to go on the run. She said she loves me and doesnt want me gone but she still refuses to get rid of him. so basicly, I go on the run and go to jail (im on probation) or i live through this hell for 2 more years.
Its getting pretty bad, every day it gets worse and sooner or later im going to snap and punch him in the face if one of us dont get out.
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Think of it this way-if you were to go on the run you would be giving this guy exactly what he wants. Don't let him win. The best revenge is success, so the better you do in everything, the more you will be shoving it in his face. Not only that, but he will have a really hard time putting you down to your mother when you are grown up with a better job than he has, right? I know that you feel like your mom is kind of betraying you, and blood is thicker than water, but she is in a really hurtful situation. She loves you more than anything in the world, but in a few years you are going to be off starting a family of your own and she doesn't want to be alone. When you get older it is harder to find a person who you can get along with, and if she is in love with him, she might be worried that she won't get so lucky again. The most important thing you should consider is how he treats her. If he is a good guy to her, maybe you could make a teeny weenie effort to try to get along, like not turning your back and walking away in the middle of a conversation. If you really can't stand him, ignore him the best you can and smile inside to yourself because your mother will never love any other human being as much as she loves you.
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Obviously running away won't do much.
Most of the time, I don't get along with my mom. To avoid it (and not get in trouble with the law) I spend as much time as I can away from home. I go to school early and stay late to get help. I go to the library to do my homework and study. I spend time with my friends as often as possible. I go exercising, running, and to the gym often as well. I do whatever I can to get out of the house.
I recommend the same for you.
You can also talk to him. Tell him he's your mom's boyfriend, not yours. You'd appreciate if you guys could have as little conversation as possible. But be respectful of him, don't just bitch out at him. Be calm and cool. Be polite often when you do have to talk with him.
Good luck
Kymmy :)
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