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break up.


Question Posted Tuesday January 6 2009, 7:16 pm

my boyfriend and i broke up for many good reasons and mainly because of me. i want to fix everything. he is in a different state because of college. he wants to wait till the summer but i cant do that because its too painful. i dont mind waiting and all but it hurts. because at first we were datin, wakin up to sweet txts, saying i love you and so on. now he wants us to wait 5 months to have that again.

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GilbertMar answered Tuesday January 6 2009, 8:43 pm:
There is one thing I would ask myself here, "Am I going forward, or backward?" It seems to me this is going backwards. You want to take it back to where it was, instead of growing and going forward.

I am thinking that you need the 5 months and obviously he needs it too, I would say he is unsure if forward is the way he wants to take your relationship. You should use this time to learn from what has happened, instead of morning your loss. Morning will do nothing for you, learning and changing will.

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