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him, me, best friend


Question Posted Monday December 22 2008, 7:44 pm

okay this is a long story. first i am a female. i have been dating this guy for about 6 months. not that long but long enough to start feeling comfortable in a realtionship. we had a talk earlier in the relationship and i told him if something better comes a long and you feel that there is a better chance i want you to go for it. don't worry about me. well saturday he told me that he found an interest in someone else and he told me he wanted to leave. i said okay thats fine. it hurt of course but i would rather know he was leaving me and not cheating on me. but then he staring telling me that he still wanted me and basically told me that he was going to go fuck her and then when he got tired of her, expected me to be there waiting for him. I told him it was either me or her make a choice. he told me he wouldnt want to lose me. i started talking to his friend and i now hes hitting on me and i think i might have given him the wrong impression. the thing is im not sure if i want to take my ex back or not so i don't want to start anythingwith his friend and even if i did it would be horrible to do. i don;t know what to think or do.

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ccupcake07 answered Tuesday December 23 2008, 2:56 pm:
I wouldn't go back with your ex. I don't want this to sound mean, but from my perspective, it sounds like he wants to go to other girls and do stuff with them and he knows that you'll be waiting for him. Which is very wrong. You shouldn;t be treated like this. It sounds like he is using you if he is going to go have sex with some other girl but he still likes you. I just say move on. He isn't worth your time. Maybe you should give his friend a try, if not, then i know you will find another sweet guy that will treat you the RIGHT way. Hope this helps!

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Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Tuesday December 23 2008, 1:07 pm:
Okay first off, let his friend know that you just want to be friends with him and you hope he didnt get the wrong impression. With your ex boyfriend forget about him. Honestly there are plenty of men out there and he is obviously not the right man for him. He will throw everything at your trying to guilt you into being with him. dont fall for it. he is just breaking up with you to mess around with another girl in my opinion hes a moron. your better than that.

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Anessa31 answered Tuesday December 23 2008, 1:06 pm:
well yuo tell that mother fucker that thats not how its going down and if he wont you then stay with you .i know that you like him alot but what if you trust him and he going to go right back to that hoe hes fuckin

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