i have never had sex but i told my boyfriend i have, can he tell i havent?
Question Posted Thursday December 18 2008, 12:06 pm
I have never had sex but i told my boyfriend i have, i have been fingered, used vibrators and tampons. I was just wondering if there was anyway he would be able to tell that i havent had sex when we do have sex?
It's not that you won't be loose enough or anything like that.
He'll be able to tell because you won't know what to do. If you haven't done it before, you react in a strange way or you may not know exactly what to do.
loveydovey224 answered Saturday December 20 2008, 12:40 pm: there isn't any way that he could for sure tell but if you don't really know what you're doing or something like that then he might be able to figure it out. good luck [ loveydovey224's advice column | Ask loveydovey224 A Question ]
TanDancer answered Friday December 19 2008, 11:23 pm: Probably. You really need to be honest, especially when it comes to your sex life. I'm not sure why you felt the need to lie, but you should think about it before you go any further in your relationship. He really needs to pay attention to your needs for your first time, but he won't have the option of being aware of this if you don't tell him. Good luck and much love.
asknava answered Friday December 19 2008, 11:03 pm: Yes. hahaha You better tell him. It is totally different when you have someone on top of you and rubbing on you and trying to aim his penis inside of your vagina. If he doesn't know, he may be rougher on you than you may be able to handle. He may expect things that you are not aware of. You may respond in a way that he may take to believe that he isn't pleasing you, when in fact you are just bewildered by certain things that may be going on. I would definately tell him. You also have to give him the choice of being the person to break your verginity. That may be very important to him, whether he wants to do that or not. If you can't be honest with him, then you should question why you are with him. If you can be honest with him, then you need to question why you feel you need to continue lie. Peace. [ asknava's advice column | Ask asknava A Question ]
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