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Friends with a guy I know wants something more
Is it wrong, as a girl, to continue to hang out with guys that I know are probably trying to figure out how to sleep with me? I know there's no emotional strings...they just want the physical. I still hang out with them though because I think they're fun. I'd never do anything with them because I have a boyfriend and I just blow off their comments and requests. I've also told them that I'm not going to cross the friendship line with them. Is it okay to still hang out with them? My boyfriend knows some of them but he doesn't know that they well...want me. Some are his friends. I just think theyre fun people and I know I wouldn't hurt my boyfriend that way. Everyone is 18-20 in age.
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I think that it is fine for you to hang out with these guys, but I don't think that it would be a good idea to hang out with them one on one. Lots of guys want lots of sex, so it's normal that they would love to have a fun, sexy girl, lol. However, since your boyfriend doesn't know about it, it would be a disaster if you constantly hung out with a guy like that alone, and your boyfriend found out that the guy wanted you; he may jump to conclusions, even if nothing happened, and he'll be hurt anyway. Your friends are your friends, and as long as you are clear that it will stay that way, keep them! Keep that good head on your shoulders too! Good luck and much love!
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There shouldn't be a problem. I love hanging out with guys who are just fun and i don't have to have an emotional thing with. And it's definitely normal for a guy to want a hot chick, ya know? Just keep letting them know you're off limits, and if it becomes an obsessive thing or gets a little out of hands, you might want to get your boyfriend involved. Not necessarily in a bad way, but have him hang out around you more. Stay close to him so that maybe you're friends will get the clue that you're serious about your boyfriend?
Hope i helped!
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