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why would he still bother me.
I just dont get this one guy I saw across the street . He sounded like he called me a bitch. And I am not sure if I saw him before. Because it kind of feels like he was this guy that used to bother me back in highschool. I just dont get what he's deal is with me. And he hurts my feelings. He can not let go of little things that in his opinion hurtful. I think you know what it means when someone calls some girl a bitch so that is what of the reason why I am mad too. This whole thing bothers me because maybe he was this guy that bothered me in highschool and he could still be continuing everything.
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Hiya!
I know how it feels when someone from your past wants to continue to hurt you. You are just sick of them, and you want to leave them and the feud in the past but they keep bringing it up.
It's understandable how you feel. Someone who doesn't even know you anymore (You mentioned you went to high school with him, I'm going to assume you graduated a while ago and haven't seen him since then) is still judging you and trying to hurt you, even though you've put it in the past and moved on.
Hopefully, you won't see him for a while again. If you do however, there are two options
a) You can ignore him like you did then. There is nothing wrong with that. He's in your past, and you don't have to see him reguarly.
b) Say something back. If you do, say something alongs the line of "Who are you and why are you insulting me?"Show him you don't even think about him anymore, and you've put him in your past. No matter how much he wishes, he doesn't haunt you.
Just remember, this is some jerk who can't let go of ridiculous high school shenanigans. Even if he hurts you, you're the better person because you've moved on. You feeling hurt is only a human feeling from this, him being a jerk is human too, human enough to show he is a complete failure in life.
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