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my bffl and him. [dont like eachother]
I kind of like this guy and would like to date him in some time, and i know he would too. But my Best Friend completely disagrees with the whole thing. She says hes not right for me, would never want us together, and would be annoyed if we dated. She said me dating him would be me heading straight for failure. I tell her sometimes you just dont know and have to give things a try and if it doesnt work out then hey thats life. But she says i shouldnt waste my time. Sometimes she'll bring up how he wants the girl in their class, knowing its not really fun to hear and dont think even think its true. She always says how she doesnt find him attractive inside and out and that he rarely looks cute. She constantly nags me about a certain thing on his face when i always tell her that thats so mean. I feel like I cant even talk to her about things between me and him, because she will go on and on about how hes not right for me. But I have another problem.. him. He says things about her too. He says she is *sound* "uhhh" and gross but says shes truely a nice and good person. They are nice to eachother when they are around eachother and kid around in a jokingly mean way. But when they arent around eachother they can say some mean things. Its mostly her but i cant deny thats hes apart of it to. I dont know what to do about the both of them. Any ideas ?
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She doesn't sound like a very good bffl if she's not going to accept the fact you like a guy with a thing on his face. Just talk to them both and tell them to mature a little bit.
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well if they don't like eachother try to undo that. tell them all the good things about the other person. have them admitt some nice things about the other person that way you can tell the other person. that would make them both feel good and it might solve your problem. you can't change a person but you can point out how much you are fond of the two people and tell them how improtant it is to you. if they don't care then you need to tell them to give them a chance. they can't hate eachother forever and they will eventually grow up. dont let anyone else make your disisions for you.
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