i'm 18/f
my 17 year old guy cousin likes this girl who is 17 also. they use to go out, but then broke up and went back out and broke up and she went out and ended up having sex with this other guy. keep in mind, she didn't have sex with my cousin. she has only had sex with two guys. anyways me and my cousin went out to dinner, and we saw her. we talked to her for awhile and when she left she told my cousin she didn't feel good. she was texting him and said that she has been eating like crazy, hasnt been feeling good, gained about 10 pounds in like a month, she got like a little blood about a week ago and that lasted one day. their condom broke, they found out after they were done, they lasted like an hour and a half i guess and she is not on birth control. i guess they had sex about a month ago too. she hasnt told ANYONE but my cousin, and she would kill him if she knew my cousin told me but he wanted my help, because i know alot about this and he doesnt. i cant tell if she is pregnant, but all her signs sure do seem like it. i know there is no sure way of knowing unless she gets a pregnancy test. my cousin was talking to her and she flipped out on him because she said she didn't want to talk about it but he is worried about her. she said she has no way of going to get a test, she doesnt have her license yet and she doesnt want to tell her friends, and if she said she had to go to the store, and someone brought her she thought it would be suspicious if she peed afterwards i guess. i just wish she knew that i knew about it, because i would be more than happy to bring her to get a test, but my cousin refuses to tell her because she will like never talk to him again and thats not an exaggeration. what am i to do? i feel bad for the poor girl.
Cassiopea answered Friday December 12 2008, 2:19 pm: why don't you go buy a test for her give it to your cousin and have him give it to her. She won't have to know and they don't cost that much then she wouldn't have to know that you know and she wouldn't have to get it...or ask you cousin to go buy it. Any way you can you should get her tested even if it means spending a little money. [ Cassiopea's advice column | Ask Cassiopea A Question ]
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