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everyone thinks im gay 13/m
ok so im not gay or anything but im a sensitive person not like sensitive skin or anything but you should know what i mean
hopefully....
because of this my friends think im gay
i dont descriminate homosexuals i just am not one
so how do i get them to leave me alone and know im straight?
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They are saying your gay because they are probably insecure about themselves and they need to grow up, because they don't have lives that they have to ruin yours. Tell them If they think your gay, than that is their opinion because you know you're not. ]
Dude, I went through this when I was your age. It sucks, I know.
It stopped about two years ago, but mainly it did because I didn't show them that it got to me, even though it did.
So as long as you don't show it bothers you [trust me, I know how tough that is.. it really is easier said than done], and they will eventually move on to something else and stop teasing you. Pretty much once high school starts, people will start to grow away from you, and soon you won't even have to deal with them.
Just stay strong ;]
If you ever want to talk, I'm here.
--Jack
(17/m) ]
Don`t act like it`s a big deal. If they know it annoys you, they`ll never stop.
Ignore the issue or laugh it off and slowly show them you`re interested in girls. You don`t have to run out and get a girlfriend, just say 'she`s pretty' if you pass a good looking girl when you`re with your friends. You don`t HAVE to prove anything to them but judging by the average maturity of thirteen year olds it may be your best option. Of course there is nothing wrong with being gay but there`s no reason for them to say you are.. whether it`s true or not. Generally, being sensitive has nothing to do with being gay.
The majority of girls love guys who have a sensitive side, so don`t feel like it`s a bad thing either. Hopefully this helps you! ]
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