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nobody is single, but me.
I am 16/f. I feel like every datable guy already has a girlfriend, and I'm the odd one out. Every time I really like somone, they are already dating somone or are "talking" to another girl. Like yesterday I was sitting next to this boy I really kinda like on a bus ride to a feildtrip. He was talking to one of my girlfriends who was sitting in the seat in front of ours, and since she knows I like him she said, "Hey David, when are you going to get a girlfriend?" and he said "Well, I'm working on it." and she said "Oh who is it?" and he wouldn't say, so she said, "Is it one of the other basketball team managers?" (because he is a team manager) and he like blushed and got akward and shook his head yes. So the point of that story is he is not referring to me. (I am not a team manager). It is not like I'm upset about this newfound information, more like frustrated. I mean, I thought I seriously had a chance with this kid, because even though he is really nice and he's cute, he is just not really popular or anything... he is just normal. But even HE is already going for somone else. And really, Im not sad, just frustrated! It is not like I am ugly, mean, or anything, its just that everyone else is alreay paired up! No nice guys are single! And all the single guys I know or even am friends with... well, they are single for a reason. They have just got some trait or another that makes them undatable in my mind. (And please dont say consider them... trust me, I've been there- on instances when I needed a date for a dance or somthing, and I am not doing that again!) Im lonely, and my frinds keep going on group dates and stuff and I am left out. Why are the guys I like always taken? What should I do? I want a boyfriend but they are all taken!
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Ok this is going to sound cliche, and you probably dont want too hear it but...Honestly you are still young.
I had the EXACT same feelings when i was your age!!! not lying, and people would tell me this all the time, but i would'nt listen...
just wait and let things just happen. If you go out trying to force something to happen, its not going to. Your only 16, you dont need to focus on finding a boy....honestly you should be out having the time of your life, not focusing on boys.
I was alway the single one in my group to, but i just had fun and just went with the flow...and i have found him!, well he kinda found me, but i was patient and let it happen as it was supposed to and things fell into place right!
You will find him i promise...dont know when it will be but you will!
so just have fun and be patient my dear.
*Bri*
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YOU KNOW WHAT YOU SHOULD DO?!?
just go fer him!
when the time is rite...(you'll know when)
ASK HIM OUT!!!
just take a chance
what if he says no?
WHO CARES?!?
go fer a diffrent guy i doubt allll
the guyz are paired
try outside of your skewl
the mall... local hang out...
i dont know i just know you should deffinatly ask him even tho hes thinking about someone else
JUST GO FER IT!!!!
:D
-Chicka376
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