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Why won't he do anything?


Question Posted Sunday December 7 2008, 1:16 am

I have been interested in this boy for a 2 months or so. He is 17, and i am a year older. I'll call him Donny. So Donny is friends with my brother, that's how we met. About three weeks ago, my brother, Donny, a few of their friends and I went to the movies. After that, Donny came over to my house and we ended up having sex. He was a virgin. Since then, we have talked just about every day. Sometimes he comes over after school just to hang out. I am stuck on why he won't do anything sexual (except for that one night). My parents are never home when he is here. One weekend they went out of town and he came over, i was drunk with some of my friends and still nothing happened. Most guys would not pass up anything with a girl under the influence. Then a few nights ago he was in my room again and still nothing. Is he scared to do anything again or what?

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Additional info, added Sunday December 7 2008, 12:41 pm:
Also, I am not wanting to have sex again with him. just a kiss every now and then would be nice. .

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Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Sunday December 7 2008, 10:37 pm:
He may thinkg that since you aren't making the first move he might think he wasn't any good. Or that you are his friends younger sister that may make him pretty nervous. Have a talk with him.

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AnonymousAdvisor answered Sunday December 7 2008, 10:34 pm:
Maybe, he isn't just a regular guy.
He's a possible gentleman, one of the very few the society has left.
Ask him about it, tell him how you feel, and that your not just interested in sex, your in it for a relationship, and you don't regret what happened between you two, but you'd like to take it slow.
Hope I helped.

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karenR answered Sunday December 7 2008, 12:07 pm:
Its possible he is scared. He could also be
ignoring you because you are his friends sister.
Then there are those wonderful guys who just
don't jump into having sex without the
relationship to go with it.

I suggest you ask him out. Go slow and forget
the sex for a while if you really care about this guy.

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