HELP!!! I NEED ADVICE!..which friend should i listen to about my boyfriend?
Question Posted Tuesday December 2 2008, 11:12 pm
okay so i went on vacation for thanksgiving break and when i came back my friend arial tells me hes glad ur back. and later on my other friend vacity tells me that at lunch he was hangin with other girls and that if i still like him and he may break up with me!and i noe him and i thought well maybe shes lieing,then vacity says want me to tell him its over i was like no i still have no evidence and later i call her to tell her that im going to talk to him and she says no,cuz then he'll sprend rumors.and so i tell her so hes gonna breakup wit me,but arial just told me that he said im glad im back and vacity says no she just wants you to stay together and so i dont know what to do i mean who do i belive oh and later he calls me and we just talk as usually and i guess it made me feel a bit better. so i NEED ADVICE LIKE A.S.A.P PLEASE ADVICE ERGENT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
letmetellyou answered Thursday December 4 2008, 3:15 pm: Hold up
So one girl wants you to stay with your boyfriend but didn't elaborate on what he was doing while you were gone.
The other one says that he was flirting with other girls the whole time you were on vacation.
Well this is just like that show on MTV The Hills.
You should first of all talk to your boyfriend because he would know the best what he was doing.
If you have been going out with him for a long time and trust him ALOT then you should believe him.
Talk to both of your friends... at the same time. See what they have to say.
Who have you been friends with longer and who is more loyal. Who has never told your secrets that you tell them which one would give you 5 dollars for a football ticket. And which one would stab you in the back in a heartbeat.
But if you don't trust your boyfriend then you don't need to be going out with him.
Ask yourself
Did he call you during vacation and how often
Before you went out with him was he a playa and what about after?
How long have you been going out with him.
How much do you really know him
Did you know alot about him before you were going out with him? [ letmetellyou's advice column | Ask letmetellyou A Question ]
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